Why leaving apartment lights off could keep you safe

These days, it's easy for people to determine our home addresses, especially if we're active on social media. For those living in apartment buildings, it's hardest to pinpoint a specific apartment unless you light it up right after entering, which might give away your location to someone with bad intentions. A TikToker shared her story, warning women worldwide not to turn on the lights immediately after entering their homes. The stakes are your safety!

If it weren't for one surprising event, few people would think that turning on a light at home could be dangerous. Mary Alice, a well-known TikToker running the account @heyitsmaryalice, shared her story, which has been viewed 20 million times. The situation she described severely undermined her sense of safety.

One day, when Mary returned home, she noticed a stranger near her apartment building. The man tried to start a conversation with her, but Mary felt uncomfortable. Although the man wanted to point out a problem with a spotlight, Mary went straight to the stairwell. After entering her apartment, she felt it was wise not to turn on the lights. When she checked the intercom camera, it turned out that the man was still standing outside, looking up, as if he was waiting to see which window would light up. This could have given away Mary's location.

This kind of story could happen to anyone. Even the simple act of turning on a light can unintentionally signal an assailant lurking in the area. Prioritize your safety by not turning on the lights immediately upon entering your apartment. Waiting a few minutes might protect you from potential danger!

Our bodies often react faster than we can think logically. Safety should always be a priority. Therefore, if you feel afraid or uneasy, trust that feeling. Women moving alone through the city need to be particularly vigilant.

If you feel someone has been following you for an extended period, consider carrying pepper spray and an alarm. When returning in the evenings, avoid using headphones and staring at your phone — this could present an opportunity for an attacker. Always stay alert; avoiding conversations with strangers can prevent potential threats. If someone questions your presence in an area, saying that you're waiting for someone might discourage a potential attacker.

The light in your home is one of the safety tools you can use strategically. If you see a stranger in the elevator, don't get in. Maintaining safety in a small space is challenging, and an attacker can stop the elevator to cause harm. Similarly, avoid conversing with strangers in the hallway to prevent revealing your residence. Your safety is paramount.