Overcoming betrayal: Woman shares how husband's affair saved their marriage

Charity met Matt, her future husband, as a teenager at a Church camp. They quickly bonded and became friends. As time passed, their feelings evolved, transforming their friendship into a romantic relationship. In 2004, Charity, at 21 and Matt, four years older, decided to marry. They later had four children.

Regrettably, in 2012, Charity started to suspect that her husband might be unfaithful. Her worst fears were confirmed when she discovered he had been having an affair with a coworker. Once his infidelity was exposed, Matt wanted to make amends. He changed his job and phone number but for Charity, it was more than she could bear. She left him. However, after a year, they reconciled. According to Charity, their relationship is now "stronger than ever."

The couple made the decision to attend therapy, a breakthrough experience that allowed them to address their difficulties. Charity reveals that she gained significant self-awareness during this process. She was able to grasp and manage her anger issues and learnt how to handle "silent days."

"The affair shattered everything, but our relationship was toxic and unhealthy at the time. Expecting to come out unscathed after throwing a grenade into a house seems impractical. Yet, I can confidently say we are happier than ever," Charity told "The Sun". She further added, "The affair turned out to be the best thing to happen to our marriage."

Charity now disseminates her wisdom gleaned from this experience on social media. She operates an Instagram account, where she speaks about coping with the aftershock of infidelity.