Ellie Gonsalves sparks debate with 118 reasons to opt‑out of motherhood

Despite the growing openness about choosing not to have children, Ellie Gonsalves' revelation has still managed to stir controversy. Known for her significant social media presence, Gonsalves compiled a detailed list of reasons she prefers to remain childless, sparking a flurry of reactions online. Among the 118 reasons, she mentions lack of sleep, physical discomforts like breast and body pain, the logistical challenges of air travel with children, financial constraints, postpartum sexual abstinence, the relentless responsibility of childcare, daily school commutes, and an increased propensity to cry.

Gonsalves, who is followed by millions on Instagram for her fashion and makeup content, recently vocalized her stance on parenthood. She made headlines by listing 118 deterrents to motherhood. Her candidness drew mixed reactions from the public.

The extensive list includes concerns over sleep deprivation, physical pain, travel inconveniences with children, the nuisances and expenses associated with raising them, restrictions on intimacy post-childbirth, the constant worry of missing out due to parenting duties, the grind of daily school runs, and heightened emotional sensitivity.

The feedback on Gonsalves' post was largely negative, with many labeling her selfish, vain, and irresponsible. Interestingly, even though she has made it clear that she does not plan on having children, some critics went as far as to deem her a "bad mother." The complexity of public opinion sometimes defies logic.